If this is followed, the
hostess cannot feel any dissatisfaction or resentment; but the guest who
insists on rushing away, shows ill-breeding and inconsideration.
TAKING LEAVE
The lady, whether she be wife, sister or fiancee, is the first to express
a desire to depart. When she does, she and the gentleman will seek out
the host and hostess, thank them cordially for their hospitality, and
take their leave. Here are some accepted forms that may be used with
variations according to the guest's own personality:
"Good-night, Mrs. Carr. I must thank you for a perfectly delightful
evening."
To which the hostess will no doubt answer something to this effect:
"We were glad to have you, I'm sure, Mrs. Roberts."
Here is another manner in which to extend one's thanks, and how to accept
them:
"Sorry we must start so soon, Mrs. Carr. Thank you so much for your
kindness."
"Good-night, Mrs. Roberts. I hope to see you soon again."
It is also very important to bid one's partner for the evening a cordial
good-night. In fact, it is a flagrant breach to leave without having
thanked one's partner--and a gentleman will never do it.
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